How to deal with someone who hates you?
First of all, let's say that no one is safe from harm, even the prophets themselves were harmed a lot. However, for non-prophets, harm may come from others, as it may come from oneself.
Anyway, here are some tips to deal with the hatred:
1- What about you? are you an ideal person? be honest in searching for your faults and mistakes.
2- If you care about the one who hates you, ask him about the reasons for his hatred of you.
3- Consult a wise person.
4- After all attempts fail, do not tire yourself. Accept the problem.
5- Do not give your secret to someone who hates you, because he will use it against you.
6- Try to find an excuse for the one who hates you, as he himself may be living in a difficult psychological situation and family problems... He may be in need of mercy.
7- Ignore your anger, control your anger, and act as if nothing had happened.
8- Look for the positive aspects of someone who hates you, or you feel that he hates you, especially if he is a relative.
9- When you do not respond to those who criticize you, they will most likely stop. (ignoring).
10-Don't take people's opinions as facts.
11- Take a break from those who hate you, because excessive friction increases the spark of disagreement and hatred.
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