How to make people's words not affect you
We cannot close people's mouths so that they do not speak, or mock. They dared to their Creator who bestowed upon them all blessings, so how can they not offend you?
Therefore, a person must be prepared for such things. He may be upset by what people say, but if he is not able to close their mouths, (which is the normal situation), then he is able to close his ears.
The more you giantize others, you become a dwarf, and when you make yourself gigantic and dwarf others, you become arrogant. So take the middle path, and treat people as human beings, they make mistakes, and have behaviors that are characterized by diversity and contradiction.
The more you set yourself a goal that you strive to achieve, the less you care about what other people say.
Don't always take other people's words seriously, most of the time their behavior is the result of not really knowing you. This should not push you to reveal yourself to them, as too much mystery is beneficial, but explain the truth to them if they misunderstand you.
We must pay attention to the fact that some words, even if they offend us, may be beneficial, because not all criticism is unacceptable, and not every word that is said to us is beneficial to us, even if it is praise, it may be false praise.
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